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Disagreeing and knowing where you each stand in relation to a particular behavior -- say, watching porn, or connecting with an ex -- allows you to understand your partner's belief system and hold your partner's mind in your mind.That knowledge comes the power of a secure attachment.His wife, Gayle Haggard, stuck by his side and eventually wrote a book about the affair called "Why I Stayed: The Choices I Made in My Darkest Hour."When I began asking the couple more questions, it became clear that Michael had not been seeking a new partner.Instead, he'd been Googling some of his exes and looking them up on social media but hadn't reached out to them."For example, a dream about an ex-girlfriend is something private, and the partner doesn't need to know, while an affair is secretive, since it affects the partner and the relationship." When it comes to protecting your relationship against infidelity, communication is key.You need to have conversations about how you both define cheating -- whether it's talking to an ex, visiting a strip club, sexting someone or more -- and what that would mean for your relationship. In areas where there are differences, focus on what would bring the greatest emotional safety and intimacy to the relationship," therapist Scott R. In my experience, when behaviors occur that trigger vulnerabilities and anxieties, it's important to lean into those moments and treat them as opportunities to discuss, debate and even disagree.
I take full responsibility both personally and financially for my actions now as I did then."Singer Fergie, best known for her success with the Black Eyed Peas, and actor Josh Duhamel have been married since 2009.
In December 2013, actors Dean Mc Dermott and Tori Spelling had a falling out after reports that he'd had an affair.
Spelling and Mc Dermott's attempt to salvage their marriage publicly played out in tabloids and on their Lifetime reality show, "True Tori." The couple have been married since 2006 and are expecting their fifth child.
Too often, we turn away from these difficult moments and opportunities to inter-relate, and from there, it's a slippery slope to engaging in behaviors in secret, prevaricating when the issue comes up and even lying in order to not make our partners upset.
But at this point, the lies and secrecy overshadow the actual behaviors in terms of potential damage.