If your boyfriend is trying to say that his job is stressing him to the point that he has no time to be committed to you, don’t stay with him at your own expense!Just respectfully tell him that you understand and move on with your life.Even if that’s not the case, they’re still reluctant to do so in case they make the wrong one for themselves.Shallow or not, the reasons for indecisiveness are borne out of self-doubt.And every time the mule gets restless or tired of chasing the carrot, the task master shortens the string ever so slightly to make the mule think that the carrot is attainable.How long do you make excuses for being unfulfilled in a relationship with someone because of there lack of commitment on all levels?
It is like dangling a carrot in front of a mule that is carrying the weight of the world on its back while chasing the carrot on the end of a string.
Now I am sure that many women will ask questions like, “What if he truly loves me, or what sort of person would I be if I did not support him through his tough times?
” I will answer this question simply by saying this.
When making huge decisions about your relationship, taking too much time can allow for other developments too, and not all of them are positive.
For example, if you take too long to answer a marriage proposal or make the proposal, you’re screwed.